People can be so limited to their own mind. The few things they were taught within 10yrs of life, is all they tend to remember, recite, and recycle no matter how much times have changed. I recently read on a family memebers page that "God doesn't make mistakes" in reference to transgender men and women. This person doesn't believe that God would trap a boy in a girl body, or vice versa. When I asked how do explain the most evil people in the world, the reasoning (another wise tale from Pastor) "God made examples of evil."
I had to stop myself from laughing. People who don't have access to other lifestyles can only recite whatever their grandma/pastor told them. I never expect everyone to agree on all issues, that's what makes us a diverse world. But if we close our mind to the fact that other people have their own truths, then that makes us ignorant. I have seen with my own eyes young girls 6yrs old, from a strait 2 parent home, who refuse to play with dolls and wear dresses. I have seen lil boys 10yrs old who sneak into mom's makeup and high heels, not really understanding why. Those who have talked to adult transgendered people usually hear the same sad story, "I didn't feel like myself. I hated trying to be what other wanted me to be." Women who have tried to carve off their breast or duct tape them down out of disgust. People kill themselves every day because they cant live with SELF. Can u imagine that? Most strait people can't.. so sad!
Science states we all start out as a female embryo, and then within 6wks the clit turns into a penis, the ovaries drop down into testis. Testosterone which we all have, kicks in more, and VOILA; We have a lil boy! So basically we're all start as women with the option to be male LMAO. Women carry male traits, just like men carry ours. Science has been able to explain for DECADES why transgendered men and women feel trapped in the wrong body. But even still, strait people challenge this concept. Even I come from a religious, strait home, and was drawn to boy clothes, short hair, and women WAY before I knew the term 'bisexual'.
I know some people think things should be simple, but the reality is humans are SO COMPLEX. No one simple cliche/scripture can make us simple. Yes God makes mistakes (with gender assignment, Hitler, Bin Laden, Bad Parents, etc) like every day. YUP I SAID IT. You can call them "examples of evil" if you want to but doesnt change the outcome. Since the days of Sadam and Gomora, humans have had the ability to love ANY GENDER, be sexually explicit, and create their own identity. Only thing that has really changed is now Doctors can snip, tuck, and sew parts on to make the body match the soul. Guess God didn't have anything to do with plastic surgeons huh? lmao
Live You Life and Don't Try To Rationalize Others,
Ladae
I love it family, that is inspired talk right there. Glad to inspire your inspiration to get people more in tune with the world and its "other side." The thing that is most bothersome to me is the fact that these people whom make the mistake of blaming God for mismatching soul,body and gender have some form of chemical imbalance which makes them feel as though they are one inside of the other. Thats as far as science can explain it. But I speak from a personal note, not just religious wise. Its my personal belief that they want to live the way they perceive themselves. I am a homophobe, I can admit that, but I am also a understanding person also. but in this case that understanding is beyond me b/c I will never fully comprehend what it is to be this type of situation.Although I have my days where I feel like I dont like myself, Im not going to go to the doctors office to slice, suck or peel away what I dont like because I was taught to love myself for who I am before I can expect that same love from anyone else. I have never really had any religious background, although I know what God expects from me, personally, and it is basically what I expect of myself. I dont choose to be this way but I was groomed to be this way. I sometimes disagree with myself ( I know weird) on the way I feel about these type of people and the decisions they make to do these (horrible, to me anyway) things to themselves. Let me put it this way..... Im short, I wish I was slimmer, I have a pretty good sexual member ( or so I been told) but wish HE was porn star BIG, but Im not goin to the chop chop shop in order to get these things fixed because I have to live with how I was created plus these are things that have been inherited to me through family bloodlines. I have learned to accept that and many more things in life. Thats what life is all about, acceptance of things you can and cant change about it. We all make changes in life, lifestyle and the activities in which we have in our lives but acceptance is something thats hard to come by, especially when you cannot accept who you are based on what society says. If you truly love yourself by breaking your pocket to have a operation so the carpet matches the drapes, I really believe something is wrong mentally, more so than physically. Im not trying to press my will and beliefs on anybody, because they are my own, just expressing my views on what is right and wrong, to me anyway.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the thoughtful reply fam. We all have parts of our bodies that we would like to enhance, but what if you had parts that you didnt want at all? Like an extra toe, or a hump back? granted God made you that way, but if you have the option to "fix" it would you? Guess my point is rather its a mental issue or an emotional issue, its still their reality. I can't look at that 6yr old playing with tonka trucks on the basketball team and tell her she has mental problems.. something inside of her is driving her towards being masculine.. whatever that "Something" is.. just hope that people dont try to label it.. for all we know it is normal behavior to them until one of the "normal" people tell them otherwise.. think about it.. love the input!
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